I never think of going to Henri Bendel’s online, and after a recent visit to their website today, I’m mad that I don’t! Have they always been so affordable?! There’s a lot of great finds in their jewelery section that would be perfect as bridesmaid gifts that your gals can wear on the wedding day. Below are a few of my favorites:
If you’re a fan of shopping on ShopBop.com, you’re probably aware of their relatively new (they launched in March) online bridal boutique, which compiles wedding-worthy dresses and accessories from various designers. I admit I haven’t spent a lot of time on ShopBop (my online shopping consists of Gilt Groupe or HauteLook or Gap, mostly), so I thought I’d take a peek at what they have to offer. If you’re looking for a “second” wedding dress (are there that many of you gals out there?!), or a beachy/casual wedding dress, there are some decent options. But otherwise, I’m not super excited about their selection. Their bridesmaids dresses would be better if they were less expensive (most of the good ones range from $400-$1,000! I picked out my favorite “cheapies” below). So far my favorite part of the boutique is the accessories. While I hope the wedding dress selection gets better, the great thing about buying online with ShopBop is free shipping and returns. So, at least if your dress doesn’t fit you (or one of your bridesmaids), you won’t be out of luck. Below are my favorite selection’s from ShopBop.com’s Wedding Boutique.
Have you shopped for a wedding dress online? If so, what was your experience?
In keeping with the diamond “theme” this week, I have compiled some amazing vintage engagement rings for all you ladies who don’t have a ring on it yet. If you are in the process of figuring out what kind of engagement ring you want, vintage and antique engagement rings are a fun place to start. There are lots of resources for vintage engagement rings online, but make sure you go with a reputable company that has a guarantee, like these below. Before you buy, you will also want to know exactly what kind of diamond you are buying. Use our How to Buy a Diamond Guide for help. If you want to view the lovely baubles in person before you or your future hubs fork over such a large amount of money, check out Lucky Magazine‘s “City-by-City Guide to Estate Jewelry” below for the best stores.
When it comes to diamonds, keep the 4 C’s in mind: Cut, Color, Clarity, and Carat. A ring’s value is based on those attributes, meaning the better the cut/clarity/color/carat, the more money the diamond should be worth. For example, a diamond’s color rating is based on its lack of color. The less color it has, the more it is worth. A “D” grade is the best color rating a diamond can have, and means it is virtually coloreless. A “Z” diamond is the worst rating, meaning it has a noticeable yellow color.
Clarity, on the other hand, is the measure of the number and size of microscopic imperfections in the diamond. Almost every diamond has an imperfection. However, the grading scale determines just how noticeable to the naked eye they are. VVS1, for example, is “Very Very Slightly Included,” meaning the imperfections are very difficult to see under a microscope. SI2 means the inclusions are visible under 10x magnification, and *MIGHT* be visible to the unaided eye. I1-3 means “Included,” and is generally a poorer quality diamond because the imperfections are highly visible. Carat is based on the size of the standard measure of a diamond’s weight. The larger the diamond, the more rare it is considered. A carat is made up of 100 points. So, a diamond with 65 points weighs .65 carats. You might be asking yourself: Why would a 2 carat diamond be more expensive than a 1 carat? Well, if the 1 carat has a better color/clarity rating, it is going to be worth more than the larger diamond.
The biggest question you (or your fiancé… or the both of you together!) should figure out is which of the C’s are most important to you and your budget. For example, with my engagement ring, I was most interested in color and carat. I was OK going with an SI2 diamond if it meant I could get a D color rating. The jeweler (yes, I picked out my own ring!), put it to me like this: “You can see color with the naked eye, but you can’t see the inclusions unless you’re using a microscope… are you ever going to be using a microscope?” Obviously I said no…unless I start doing some weird experiments on myself, in which case I have bigger problems.
You can get a better sense of the ratings using the charts below. Keep in mind that when you do buy a diamond engagement ring, you want to make sure it has certification from the Gemological Institute of America (GIA), which is the most trusted certification source because it is nonprofit. You will also want to ask your jeweler for an appraisal. This will help when you need to get it insured, which you should do right away.
As a newly engaged writer, I had a hard time finding the practical information I needed to plan my wedding. While the wedding books, magazines, and websites I read had pretty pictures, they seemed to just skim the surface when it came to providing helpful ways for me to create the wedding of my dreams. Now that I'm married, I hope this blog serves as a resource for all you other bride-to-be's, with unique ideas for wedding venues, wedding decorations, wedding dresses, and more!
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