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Honeymoon Idea: Nashville

Loveless Motel Nashville

 

I wrote this post over a year ago for a travel site and never got around to posting it on here. And, since the hubs and I don’t actually live in Nashville anymore (we moved to LA last year), it hasn’t seemed completely relevant. But Nashville has become an “It” city these days, and truth be told I’ve come to miss it. Whether you’re considering a vacation there or you want to go out of the box and do an inexpensive honeymoon, below are some fun tips on how to live like a local.

City Guide: Nashville

As New York transplants, my husband and I have spent the last two years exploring the ins and outs of Nashville. Our mission (if we chose to accept it) was to not only get used to our new Southern way of life—like learning to drive again after 10 years of riding the subway—but to appreciate all that Music City had to offer. While it was easy to find activities that involved country music and cowboy boots, we wanted to really sink our teeth into the “real” nashville. And so far, we’ve been able to find more than just a country groove: we found a city we now call home.

 Saturday in Nashville

Saturday means no alarm clocks. We roll out of bed at 9 a.m., and so long as we didn’t have too much wine the night before, we put on our running shoes and drive over to West Nashville’s Centennial Park. We drag our still sleepy bodies out of the car and do a quick stretch before we start our *hopefully* three mile jog (sometimes we jog 2 and just say we did). The 132-acre park houses an exact replica of Greece’s Parthenon, which is kind of weird and awesome at the same time. On a sunny day, you’ll see lots of kids feeding ducks in the park’s man-made Lake Watauga, as well as the occasional Nicole Kidman/Keith Urban sighting.

After we’re a sweaty mess, we’ll get back into the car and if the weather is good we’ll hit up the West Nashville Farmer’s Market. There are more than a dozen local vendors who sell everything from fresh produce to local honey. One of our favorites is the grass-fed beef from Peaceful Pastures. The market runs April-November, and is a fun spot to run into new friends or start a conversation with a local farmer. If we actually jogged the three miles, we might even pick up a peach pie from Papa C Pies. There’s something about living in the south that makes me want to eat (and dream about baking) pies.

The Parthenon at Centennial Park

The Parthenon at Centennial Park

By this time, I need some coffee ASAP. We head back downtown (about a 15 minute drive) to Crema, which is hands-down Nashville’s best coffee shop. Owner-operated, Crema takes a page from the artisinal coffee shops we’d frequent in Brooklyn, and is inevitably full of scruffy Nashville hipsters perusing MacBooks or discussing last night’s show at The Basement. They serve up regional favorites like Drew’s Brews hand-roasted coffee and eats from Sweet 16th Bakery, and always have some sort of cool artwork for sale on the walls. We both order a cappuccino and head back to our apartment, which is only a few minutes drive away.

I should get this out in the open. I LOVE our apartment. Our loft is in an old converted factory, with 25-foot ceilings and wooden columns throughout. When we first started looking at apartments, my husband basically had to revive me when I found out that we could get double the square footage we had in NYC for less money AND with no roaches. Bonus? We have a soaking tub, too. Needless to say, when we get home after our morning outing, I like to prop my feet up and enjoy my insect-free, cheap apartment as much as I can.

A cappuccino at Crema

A cappuccino at Crema

When the hunger kicks in I finally have to motivate myself to get dressed. Depending on our mood, we’ll get brunch at Marché, a european-style cafe in East Nashville that serves up some amazing seasonal dishes such as a Corn, Roasted Red Pepper, and Ricotta Tart or classic bistro items like Steak and Eggs with roasted red potatoes. Marché is the sister restaurant to Margot Cafe & Bar right down the street, which is one of our favorite restaurants for dinner. If we’re feeling worldly, we’ll go ethnic. I am addicted to a restaurant called Kien Giang, which is a hole-in-the-wall Vietnamese restaurant that will feed us amazing, fresh food for under $18 for the two of us. We always get the same thing: two Vegetable Pho’s and two orders of spring rolls with shrimp only. If we don’t go there for lunch, we’ll undoubtedly order takeout from them on Sunday night. I can’t get enough.

After we fill our bellies, I like to bribe Cory into going shopping with the promise of a cocktail after (ladies, if you don’t know this trick yet…it works). Personally, I’m not a big clothes shopper. My weakness is home goods, and I located my favorite spots within weeks of moving to Nashville. Our first stop is the Downtown Antique Mall, one of the most eclectically cool places in Nashville. It’s located right beside the active train tracks up a stone driveway on 8th avenue. The building is an old warehouse (I seem to be drawn to these), and inside are aisles and aisles of lost treasures from various decades, such as old metal signs, industrial bar carts, and life-size Bruce Lee statues (pictured). The place feels as if you just discovered a vintage mecca, and manages to not be too overwhelming. When we first moved into our loft, I spent most weekends there, buying vintage metal cabinets, deco vases and candelabras (all under $100) and anything else I could get my antique-loving hands on. Getting lost in there and wandering around is my favorite Nashville pastime.

Once I see that glazed look in Cory’s eyes, I know it’s time to leave the bygone eras inside. A deal’s a deal, and usually at this point even I’m thirsty for a yummy cocktail. We bring ourselves and our wallet to Patterson House, a 5 minute drive from the antique mall. The old-timey theme is definitely continued inside this old house, and no matter how sunny it is outside, you would never know it. You enter the bar via a thick velvet curtain into a dark room that looks like you’ve just entered a rich old man’s study. Complete with law books and chandeliers, the “no-standing” bar is a polar opposite to Lower Broadway’s touristy Honky Tonk row (not that that isn’t awesome from time to time). Patterson House’s menu is broken down by spirits: Gin, Vodka, Tequila, Bourbon, and Whisky. If I’m feeling adventurous, I’ll order a bacon-infused old fashioned, or stick with my usual Manhattan. Cory goes for the El Diablo, which has tequila, freshly-squeezed lemon juice, creme de cassis, ginger syrup, and club soda. Drinks are pricey ($12/each), so we swear we’re only going to have one. This plan doesn’t always work.

Inevitably we have the same conversation that every couple has on a Saturday night: Where do you want to eat? If we want to treat ourselves, we’ll head out to Miel in Sylvan Park. It’s a little off the beaten path, but once you get there you’re instantly treated to some of the best food in Nashville. Seema, the restaurant’s owner, is very focused on organic farming and brings in fresh vegetables and produce from the restaurant’s Cumberland River farm just 10 minutes away. They always have a delicious special on the menu, in addition to french-focused regulars such as bouillabaisse and duck and chestnut ravioli with seared diver scallops. Yum! P.S.: They can also cater weddings at Wolf Den Farm and other locations.

The Station Inn

The Station Inn

Admittedly, there are times when a delicious meal will prompt us to drive home, get in our PJ’s, and watch Saturday Night Live. But, one of us will kindly remind the other that we have no children (yet), and we’re not an elderly couple who just finished an early bird special (yet). If the pep talk works, we’ll check out what Nashville does best: country music. One of our favorite places to catch a live show is at the famed BlueBird Cafe, home to the amazingly talented bluesman Mike Henderson, who plays every Monday night, as well as hundreds of aspiring songwriters who show up every year for the cafe’s open mic night (Taylor Swift was apparently discovered there when she was 15-years-old). Located in Green Hills, the BlueBird Cafe has as much ambience as a place located in a strip mall can have, but that doesn’t matter. You’re there for a chance to listen to Nashville’s next big thing. If there’s a line out the door (which there tends to be), and we forgot to make a reservation, we’ll head over to the Station Inn, in the Gulch.

The Gulch, with it’s high-rise condos dotted amongst a row of bars and restaurants, is Nashville’s answer to an urban neighborhood. The Station Inn, a small stone building that looks like it could’ve been Davey Crockett’s boyhood home, sticks out like a sore (but awesome) thumb there, but is one of the most authentic Nashville experiences you can have. We head up the ramp into the cozy room, grab one of few remaining empty chairs and listen to some legendary bluegrass musicians who are so close you could throw a banjo at them. As the smell of popcorn and frozen pizzas cooked to order waft through the room, you can’t help but appreciate just how varied Nashville life can be.

After the last song is sung, we make our way back to the loft. We realize we’re no longer New Yorkers as we drift to sleep with the sounds of fiddles ringing in our ears, rather than ambulances.

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Honeymoon Idea: A Week in Paris

I just returned from a weeklong vacation in Paris where my husband and I celebrated our first wedding anniversary. All I can say is that I’m in love. With my husband? Well, yeah. We already knew that. But I have also fallen head over heels in love with Paris itself. Now that we’re back, I literally feel lovesick. You know that feeling you had when you first fell in love (or lust…or crush…or however you describe it), and all you could think about was that other person. Everything reminded you of them…every song on the radio, every picture, every person you saw on the street made you think of them. That’s seriously how I feel about Paris right now. I want to hop back on a plane and go back tomorrow. I want to LIVE there. I’ve got it bad.

In Canal St. Martin

If you’re looking for a romantic honeymoon spot, I cannot encourage you enough to pick Paris. While I’ve been lucky enough to have visited a ton of great cities in Europe (and they are all great), Paris is hands-down my favorite. Even though I’d been there before, it was this trip that really exposed me to just how magical a city it is. It’s love, I tell you!

I think one of the best things we did in planning for this trip was renting an apartment. Paris hotels are notoriously expensive and small, and an apartment allowed us to spread out and trick ourselves into thinking we were locals for a week. I am convinced there is nothing better than waking up in the morning in Paris and going out to get a fresh baguette to bring back for breakfast. We would wake up, make our morning bread run, come back and make the fresh oeufs (eggs) we got at the market, and turn on some Django Rheinhardt on our portable iPod player as we opened up our windows to let in the neighborhood sounds below us. It was my idea of heaven. We rented from A La Carte Paris and had a great experience. I highly recommend them! Click here to read more about Paris apartment rental agencies.

Our apartment in the Marais

Paris is broken down by arrondissements, and our apartment was in the 4th, in an area called the Marais on the Right Bank. If you’re familiar with NYC, it’s somewhere between the vibe of a West Village and Nolita. We stayed steps away from Place des Vosges on Rue des Tournelles, which has cobblestone streets and a great mix of gay and Jewish residents, as well as really cute cafes, boutiques, and bars. I couldn’t have asked for a better neighborhood. If I could live in Paris, this would be my spot.

We were really lucky in that we had AMAZING weather while we were in Paris. Just when I started thinking that we had the worst weather luck (our two week honeymoon saw only two days of sun), Paris and a large portion of Europe experienced an Indian summer for 6 of our 8 days there. It was in the 70′s and 80′s, sunny, and gorgeous. I mean, there wasn’t a cloud in the sky.

While you can never plan what kind of weather you’re going to get, if you’re trying to figure out when to go to Paris, I would recommend the months of May, June, and September/early October. July can be overrun with tourists, August is when a lot of Parisians flee the city and tons of restaurants/shops are closed, and the winter and too early in Spring can be cold and rainy.

While we were in Paris there were two fun happenings in the city at that time: Fashion Week and Nuite Blanche. Fashion Week is what you expect…lots of beautiful women walking the streets, but I seriously doubt that’s any different than a random day in Paris. I mean, every woman there is gorgeous. They all have an amazing sense of style, which is simple, elegant, and somehow stereotypical without that being a bad thing (I saw a ton of french stripe shirts and cropped black pants on locals, which I loved).

Saturday night (October 1) was La Nuit Blanche (translated as Sleepless Night) , which is the yearly arts festival where the museums and the entire city is up from dusk to dawn debuting live art installations. There was such an amazing energy in the air, with lots of drinking wine out of bottles on the street and music wafting through every alleyway. The biggest installation was called “Purple Rain,” located a couple blocks away from our apartment in the Marais at the Hotel d’Albret (hotels in Paris are not “hotels” in the typical sense of the word, but old public buildings, such as the Hotel de Ville, which is Paris’ City Hall). Conceived by artist Pierre Ardouvin, the installation was designed to make you feel like you were in the Prince song and film “Purple Rain.” You entered a purple-lit courtyard with an umbrella that shielded you from the man-made rain that was pouring down as snippets from the song played in the background. It was hilariously ironic and amazing.

 

This was my husband’s first trip to Paris, so we planned on visiting a lot of the classic Parisian landmarks, such as the Louvre, Eiffel Tower, Catacombs, Versailles, etc. But we also wanted to budget a large percentage of our time to strolling around and just “being Parisien.” This is sometimes easier said than done, and we didn’t factor in some of the lost time we would have being tired or hungover the day after Nuite Blanche, or the night we couldn’t seem to fall asleep and didn’t leave the apartment until noon the next day. But, that’s bound to happen when you’re so excited to see everything that you wear yourself out a bit. By Monday night we sort of reconfigured our plan and eliminated some things on our schedule so we could spend more time simply relaxing. So, things like Versailles and Montmartre came off our list and were put onto our “next time” one. Because when you’re there, you really just want to do what the Parisiens do best, and that’s finding the “Joie de Vivre.” For us, that meant lots of eating, drinking, and strolling.

Below is a sample itinerary that could be a great start for you if you’re planning a weeklong trip to Paris for your honeymoon. One thing to keep in mind is that you’ll want to focus your time on one or two arrondissements a day, rather than hopping all over the place.

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Honeymoon Idea: Napa Valley Escape

The Carneros Inn

 

The hubs (he just loves being called that) and I went to the wedding of two of our favorite people in San Diego over Memorial Day weekend. The wedding was gorgeous, and it kicked off what ended up being an amazing vacation for us. From San Diego we hopped on a flight to San Francisco, then rented a car and drove to Napa Valley. I had been to Napa Valley before, but I was with my parents and was about 13 or 14 years old, so I’m pretty sure the concept of wine tasting was lost on me at the time.

After researching where to stay in Napa, I was psyched to find out I was able to get a discounted rate at The Carneros Inn (I wrote an article about it for another website). The Inn is located in the Carneros wine region (just an hour from San Fran), and is between the Napa and Sonoma valleys. The Inn is situated on 27 acres of grape vines, apple orchards, and farmland, and is breathtaking (as is most of Napa).

I kid you not when I say that it was literally the most amazing place I’ve ever stayed at. I don’t know if it’s just because I’ve never stayed at a place so expensive (we stayed in the Harvest Cottage, which normally averages around $600/night), or because I had a constant wine buzz, but I did not want to leave. It was perfect.

The Boon Fly Cafe, where we had breakfast every morning

The grounds are definitely unique, and feel like a mix between Nantucket and Key West to me. I’m not going to describe them like a catalogue (OK maybe I will: they were rustic yet chic!), but they were gorgeous without being too pristine. They were so private and serene that I literally felt like we had our own house in Napa. There’s a spa, three restaurants, an infinity pool overlooking the vineyards, a lap pool, and a gym. Basically, anything you could possibly need.

Private outdoor fire pit (images from hotel website)

 

The private outdoor soaking tub on the patio

The cottage itself was small but perfectly laid out. It had a king bed, fireplace, wine fridge, desk, a giant bathroom with a soaking tub and walk-in shower, and an espresso machine with Illy coffee. The BEST part of the cottages (aside from the fireplace…falling asleep with it on was seriously magical) was the outdoor area. It featured, among other things, a giant soaking tub, a fire pit (which the hotel left us a s’mores kit for), and an outdoor shower that connected through a door to the indoor one. I don’t know about you, but I’ve never taken a REAL shower outside. I actually took one while it was raining, and now I won’t shut up about it. It was seriously a highlight of my life.

Looking out to the outdoor shower from the indoor one

If you’re looking for a stateside honeymoon spot, I HIGHLY recommend Napa Valley and the Carneros Inn. It’s obviously super expensive, but if you can somehow afford to spend 3 or 4 nights here, you’ll remember it forever. Which could be a bad thing, because now I’m totally spoiled. “Are there no Italian Linens and Fireplaces in this Hampton Inn!?” Pretty sure I’ll get over that.

Even though you never actually have to leave the Inn if you don’t want to, below are several highlights from our trip that are worth checking out. Napa Valley was amazingly beautiful. And, don’t tell any Italians I said this, but I think it might even be more beautiful than Tuscany (and cheaper to get to!). Ssshhhh.

Napa Highlights:

Lunch at Auberge Du Soleil
Word to the wise: If you’re planning on going to wine tastings AFTER lunch, there’s no need to order a bottle of wine DURING lunch. We made this mistake.

Dinner at Bottega
Chef Michael Chiarello’s restaurant. The food was amazing here.

Silver Oak Cellars

Stag’s Leap Winery
This was the last of about four stops on our self-guided winery tour. The super nice guy who worked the wine tasting there told us about how Napa used to be (or still is?) somewhat dangerous in parts, and that there were Napa gangs. This took a tipsy me by surprise, and led me to drunkenly ask him if instead of Crips and Bloods, they were called Chardonnays and Cabernets. Ahhhhh, good times.

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Honeymoon Idea: Paris Apartment Rental

 

Man-oh-Manischewitz! This has seriously been another crazy week.

On top of being buried under a pile of work, I’ve been crazily researching Paris apartment rentals for our October trip to gay Paree. You’ll think I’m lying when I tell you that I’ve spent, oh, I don’t know, 20 hours researching lodging options in the city of light…but I have. The good news is that not only am I pretty sure I finally found a place, but I’ve researched enough places that I can tell you exactly where you should look if you’re considering renting an apartment for a Paris honeymoon.

First things first…if Paris is on your list as a possible honeymoon spot, you should know that it doesn’t really get more romantic than that (well, maybe those crazy cabana-in-the-water places in Fiji are a close second). The city has amazing food, serious culture, and awesome shopping. This will be my third time there (my last was 12 years ago…is the Eiffel tower still there?!). The first time I went, I stayed in a hotel. While the experience was nice, it didn’t hold a candle to the second time I went when I stayed in a friend’s apartment. It was only for a few days…but between my trips to the market to buy cheese and wine and my breakfast every day on the terrace, I felt like I actually lived there. Going there for your honeymoon for one or two weeks and renting an apartment is a great way to really experience the city in a totally different light. So…why an apartment and not a hotel?

Well, first off, Paris hotel rooms are notoriously small, and super expensive for what you get. While they’ve always been small, before the Euro they were at least cheap. Not anymore, with the current exchange rate of  1 euro= 1.44 dollars. Sigh. I miss le franc.

That’s not to say that you can’t find a decent hotel for under $200. But chances are you’ll barely have room to fit your suitcase in it. And if you’re going on your honeymoon and plan on staying somewhere more than 5 nights, that’s going to get old really fast.

When we began thinking about taking a trip to Paris a few weeks ago, we sort of went into it knowing we would do an apartment vs. a hotel. The idea of going to the markets and buying fresh baguettes and cheese and making breakfast or even a dinner or two in our french apartment sounded awesome. So, we began the apartment search.

First thing I noted: There are a ton of places to rent from. First, there are places like TripAdvisor and VRBO, where owners and agencies pay to list their units. There are also off-shoots of these sites, namely FlipKey (Trip Advisor’s) to HomeAway (VRBO’s), which seem to be a bit more high-quality. While the majority of the listings on these sites are reputable, they are not guaranteed (even though HomeAway offers a $10,000 rental protection insurance starting at $39). Because of that you really have to make sure a listing has reviews that aren’t entered by the owner, and that you get additional references as well as a contract once you decide you want to rent.  In addition to these listing services, there are a ton of agencies that specialize in rentals. I’m pretty sure I’ve been through them ALL, so I’ve compiled a list of my favorites (so far), below.

Second thing I noted: These places book up fast. If you know you want to go to Paris for your honeymoon and rent an apartment, starting looking now, even if it’s a year out. A lot of the apartments that were nice and a good deal were booked more than 6 months in advance. Hence my crazy two-week-long quest to find an apartment that we loved that fit our budget. Speaking of budget…

We’ve been going back and forth the past couple days trying to decide exactly what we wanted our budget to be. Somehow we started off relatively low, and within a matter of days found ourselves trying to justify an apartment that was seriously awesome but was equal to three month’s rent for us. “How many times are we going to Paris?!,” we told each other. “That view is totally worth it!” Now, while we might not be totally convinced that the view ISN’T worth it, you’ll want to decide what is most important to you if you decide to rent a Paris apartment. Some of the questions you should ask yourself are: How much do you plan on being inside the apartment? Do you plan on cooking in several nights or making breakfast/lunch? Do you want the apartment to be as romantic inside as Paris is outside? Would you rather spend more money on food than lodging? The answer is different for everyone. Regardless of your answer, I guarantee you that renting an apartment in Paris is going to get you way more space and flexibility than you would in a hotel. Which is why a Paris apartment rental is perfect for a honeymoon!

As I said earlier, there are a ton of rental agencies out there, but a lot of them are sketchy, or they simply don’t have apartments you would…uh…feel comfortable doing honeymoon stuff in. Nothing kills the romance more than a dirty bed or a bunch of bees, like I experienced during our honeymoon in Tuscany. From what I researched, these are what I think are the best Paris vacation apartment rental agencies:

  • Paris Luxe (If you want to splurge. Most apartments start at $3,100/week. Sign up for their e-mail specials and their Facebook page, where they mention any deals they have going on.)

Have you rented an apartment in Paris before? What was your experience?

 

 

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